| Location | Leeds |
| Age | 21 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 22/08/1980 |
| Date of Death | 14/11/2001 |
| Visitors | 8,229 since 08/12/2005 |
| Creator |
22-08-80 till 14-11-2001
Born
leeds st james hospital.died leeds general infirmary. Andrew was on the back of a friend,s
motorbike, his head hit a lampost from the back. He suffered brain damage + swelling of the brain.
He died 11 days after accident. Andrew was my first child , I was only young when had him. Not long
after along came laura my next child. I never regreted having 2 children so young, think I was born
2 mother. for a long time it was us 3 we did every thing 2gether, even growing up. then along came
my partner + along came jazz.Andrew,laura loved there little sister.i love my children more than
life its self,andrew all ways said he,d never leave me+ true 2 word he moved his partner in+ along
came ellis my boys boy.nat used 2 laugh + call andrew mummy,s boy.ellis 2 from the day he came home
from hos was nanna,s boy.we all miss andrew so much he was a well liked person who made people
laugh.ellis was only 18 months when andrew died,we help 2 keep his daddy alive by photos + story,s.
I LOOKED UPON YOU ONE LAST TIME.
A FACEI KNEW BETTER THAN MINE
I STROKE YOUR HAIR AND KISS YOUR FACE.
YOU FEEL SO COLD AND OUT OF PLACE.
I TRY TO LEAVE BUT AM STUCK TO THE FLOOR,
AS REALITY HITS ME WITH A BLINDING ROAR.
I TRY TO LISTEN TO THE VOICE OF REASON IN MY HEAD,
MY HEART SCREAMS DON,T LEAVE HIM IN THIS PLACE OF DEAD.
I KNOW YOU ARE GONE AND CAN,T COME BACK.
WITHOUT YOU LIFE IS WRONG, THE FUTURE BLACK.
THE ANGUISH OF THIS RUNS SO DEEP.
I FEEL IT EVEN IN MY SLEEP.
MY HEART CANNOT FATHOM THAT YOU ARE GONE.
AS MY MIND CRIES OUT THAT THIS IS WRONG.
I AM YOUR MOTHER, YOU WERE MY SOUL,
NOW I KNOW LIFE SHALL NEVER BE WHOLE.
AS I TURN TO WALK AWAY.
MY HEART TO SHATTERED TO EVEN PRAY.
I LOOK BACK AT YOUR FACE I KNOW SO WELL,
SO THIS IS TRULY A TASTE OF HELL.
HI
HI LOVE WHAT DO U THINK ABOUT JAZZ HAVING HER PHONE NICKED, SHE,S GUTTED BUT NOWT WE CAN DO.ELLIS COMING 2 MORO NOT SEEN HIM SINCE WE HAD FALL OUT , TAYLOR + RILEY COMING SOON LAURA GOING 2 GYM. I, M GOING 2 WORK LATER ON , SOO BORING I DON,T DO ENYTHING EXCITING. LOVE U MY BOY MISS U EVERY DAY , HOPE BIRDY OK . LOVE + KISSES MUM . XXXXX
Hi Andy hows things up there hope all is well, Taylors at mums he slept there last night then had to take riley to a&e tonight so hes stayed down there again even though he could come home little bugger lol Well been in my first car crash today u should see my car i wanted to cry i still do just thinking about it my new car all the door smashed in i wanted to scream at the bleeding lad but i didnt he said sorry straight away and wanted to know if kids were ok and everything! can u remember when u was in that crash with graham and that jonny i remember graham ringing grandads and i was on my little bike and i raced down to auntie jans house with mum and jan to make sure u was all ok i was worried lol!
Any way just thought'd i let u know about my event ful day NOT! hope all is well up there im gona go to bed now my shoulder is killing me!!! speak to u soon luv u millions xxxx all our luv laura, chris, taylor and riley
Well what a day thursday was having to say bye to birdy then we left his doo and then got told nanna wasnt very well so we ended up down at lgi till 9.30pm they kept her in she'd had a stroke bless her they kicked her out on saturday dont think they could cope with her any longer lol
Well i hope birdy has settled in up there im sure u, him and marcroft are up too noo good lol theres only poor karl down here now from u lot but hes got jay and the rest off them too look after him and he knows hes always welcome here if hes ever feeling down i felt soo sorry for him on thursday he just looked lost at the church like he didnt know what was going on but saying that i didnt know what was going on i just cant get my head round it why 3 of u now its just not right not u 3 but then thats one thing we will never understand!!! they must have need 3 great lads up there and the many more thats up there too like tony and marcus its just not right ur all too young but as long as ur all together makes us all feel abit happier!!
Any way gona get off been out for the day to filey and scarbrough needed to get away from everything and u know me i run to scarbrough lol i forget everything when im over there watching the sea and in the winter the big waves for some reason it relaxes me strange i know lol luv u all xxxxxxx
HI
HI LOVE I,M SURE U + BIRDY WERE WATCHING US ALL YESTERDAY, IT WAS A VERY SAD DAY,HE HAD A LOVLEY SEND OF HE MUST B PROUD OF HIS MUM DAD + BROTHERS.ALL UR FRIENDS WERE THERE, THEY PLAYED BROTHERS + SISTERS, U EVEN GOT A MENTION, I THOUGHT THAT WAS SO NICE OF HIS MUM + DAD , TELL BIRDY I,L ALLWAYS B HERE 4 HIS MUM + DAD CAUSE HAS WE NO IT GETS A LOT HARDER WHEN FUNERAL OVER.U 2 BOYS B GOOD IN HEAVEN HOPE MARCROFT WITH U HAS WELL.STILL CAN,T BELIEVE BIRDY DEAD , THEN SOME TIMES STILL CAN,T BELIEVE U R.BET U NEVER THOUGHT U,D GET UR BEST MATE WITH U , SHOW HIM ROUND LOOK AFTER HIM TELL HIM 2 GO C HIS MUM DAD + BROTHERS IN THERE DREAMS. U COULD COME C ME HAS WELL ANDREW MISS U WHEN U DON,T.LOVE U LOVE + KISSES MUM. LOOK AFTER NANNA SHE,S NOT WELL . XXXX
Hi luv hows things up there back with ur mate bless him were all gutted for him send him our luv!!!
Mums back today shes gona be on such a high and then im gona have to tell her whats happened just cant belive it!!!
Trust mum to go away this weekend ive had that bad news then last night the neighbours went away and left key with a group of kids and god it all kicked of and suprise suprise they had to come here coursing trouble we phoned police 4 times and guess what they were too busy to come out and deal with kids but we said if we hit them then will u be out and they said yes cos u cant hit kids what a bleeding joke this world is coming too they were smashing bottles and everything the prats but then i let dogs out LOL they soon run!!! If they had of been older id have battered the girl god she could scream cant wait for the neighbour to get back shes gona get a right mouth ful of me!! i was actually proud of my self that i didnt punch anyone i think i did really well LOL!! And this morning Rileys poorly got a cough and diarria LOL
Or well will speak soon and u two look after each other and all the other angels too xxx luv u millions speak soon xxxxx
Hi
Well can,t believe the cats got over active thyroid gland he,s on tablets for life now , gonna cost me a bomb, he,s got too have blood test too keep checking it,s ok. hope all is well in heaven love. miss you lots love + kisses mum. xxxxx
We little knew that morning that God was going to call your name,
In life we loved you dearly, in death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you, you did not go alone,
For part of us went with you, the day God called you home.
You left us peaceful memories, your love is still our guide,
And though we cannot see you, you are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one, the chain will link again.
If Only Our Children Were Easter Eggs
If only our children were Easter eggs,
Hidden safely in the grass,
We could search for them and pick them up,
And hold them within our clasp.
We'd have a heavenly Easter egg hunt,
All with baskets in our hands,
Searching with a broken heart.
Only WE can understand.
'Oh, look I found your child over here,'
'Hey, did anyone find mine?'
They are so beautifully colored,
And they sparkle and they shine...
These aren't your usual Easter eggs,
They each have their own special glow,
That comes from way down deep within,
Only a grieving parent would know.
We gather up our special eggs,
With excitement all around,
For the gift that we've been given,
For the treasure we have found.
We all now stare with wonderment,
At our children that have died.
We want to hold them once again,
And release them from inside.
But we all begin to realize,
We have to crack their beautiful shell,
The one that, makes them sparkle and glow,
The one they have earned so well.
We know we can't destroy their beauty,
And take them from their place,
So we give them an understanding kiss,
As a tear runs down our face.
One by one we take our baskets,
With our beautifully colored eggs,
And place them gently in the grass,
As we turn and walk away.
We look back in amazement,
As our eggs begin to sing.
We see them flutter and move about
'Look, our eggs all now have wings.'
Then the Golden egg begins to speak...
'Your children are safe with me.'
'You'll be with them when the time is right'
Together for all eternity.'
We stand there in a circle of love,
As we look up to the sky,
Watching our radiant eggs take flight,
Knowing our children didn't die.
Sending our Love to Andrew and all his family especially Maxine. Thinking of you always.
Love From the Cascarino Family xxx
Heyaa
Heya i aint been on this for long im sorry (:
but i fort imite just have to come on and let you no i do still think bout you (: nanna broke her arm or elbow oh bless her whats she like. i shud really go see her, ill go sumtym this week got 2 week off school yay. Stated doing my gcses this past month AHHH so hard lol. You could propberly see me stressing over them LOL. Well im going to go now (:
Love You Loads
Jazz-Min X x x x
Hi love, been 2 ur garden . Chris + laura come 4 me took me 2 strikes , we got all new stones. Chris took us 2 ur garden + we layed them all down then scatterd red stones over the white one,s looks realy nice.some one stole lots of ur ornaments again but never mind we,l get u some more. wonder if they realize how much hurt they cause by doing it. Ellis at school so is taylor + jazz they break up 4 easter this week. Chris drops ellis of 4 me later cause he has mondays of work. Been 2 c nanna alice this morning she, s so forgetfull now , when i take ellis she calla him andrew all time.Taylor better now , riley fine allso. hailey the dog not well so look after her 4 us. Love u my boy love mum. xxxxx
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